Ok, I think we got it straight. Took it to an older guy I know a while back that tinkers with them.

Problem 1- new solenoid I ordered was bad.
Problem 2- neutral safety button switch thing had an issue.
Problem 3- purple wires were in wrong spot on switch.

For future reference if anybody runs into this issue and Google's it.
Red and purple stripe goes to B.
Both purple wires go to S
Black and yellow goes to M.
Two black wires go to other M.
Alarm goes to A.
Grey wire is Tach.

Also scored an old OMC 19 pitch prop. So will try to get out tomorrow and post results!
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